Showing posts with label Encouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Encouragement. Show all posts

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Not Just For Girls

A phenomenon has swept through my home, the homes of my wife's friends, and the homes of most of the female members of my ABF this past year.   It's called "One Thousand Gifts" by Ann Voskamp.   According to my wife, it is a life changing book.  And yes, I can see a change in her and how she has handled this past year.


The premise of the book is this - be thankful - and keep track of these things that you are thankful for in a journal or notebook of some type all the way up to 1000.  To see God's gift to us in every circumstance, no matter how hard or beautiful it might seem at the time.


The women love it!   But how come it's just them?


Why don't men count their blessings?  
Why aren't we giving thanks in all things?  
And writing them down so we can look back over them?   


I know sometimes we do utter a quick "Thank You Jesus", especially when there are scary moments and we escape back to our normal, everyday life.   But just saying the word "blessings" or "counting gifts" sounds like something a woman might do.  It's almost like we think it could be unmanly to do such a thing.



But Jesus --- the most manly man --- gave thanks --- even on the night before he went to the cross.

"And he took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.”  Luke 22:19 ESV

The second "I" of Uprising/REUP is INTIMACY.  It is centered around spending time journaling and recording God's work and blessings in our lives.  Doing so we leave a memorial of our own for our families and generations to come. 



In Joshua 4:5-7 we read, "5 And Joshua said to them, “Pass on before the ark of the LORD your God into the midst of the Jordan, and take up each of you a stone upon his shoulder, according to the number of the tribes of the people of Israel, 6 that this may be a sign among you. When your children ask in time to come, ‘What do those stones mean to you?’ 7 then you shall tell them that the waters of the Jordan were cut off before the ark of the covenant of the LORD. When it passed over the Jordan, the waters of the Jordan were cut off. So these stones shall be to the people of Israel a memorial forever.”  ESV

How different would we be as fathers, as husbands, as sons, as friends, as employees, as volunteers, as teammates, as bosses if we lived a life of giving thanks?    If we spent time each day recording what God has done in and around our lives?


Henry Ward Beecher said, "The unthankful heart discovers no mercies; but let the thankful heart sweep through the day and, as the magnet finds the iron, so it will find, in every hour, some heavenly blessings"! 






Monday, January 23, 2012

I hate our cat!!!


Our cat is one of my least favorite things in life!  This is her (Baby Kitty) in her usual day-long position, sleeping on a soft fuzzy blanket in front of a window.

Baby goes around carefree thinking she owns the place. 

Baby leaves hair everywhere for us to deal with.  

Baby pesters us until we give her what she wants to meet her needs.

This month - about once a week - Baby has been urinating in front of her litter box (on a rubber mat) instead of inside it.  We have no idea why and it's not cute!

When we try to punish her for doing it, she doesn't seem to be bothered and instantly goes back to doing whatever she was doing before - usually taking a nap - which is her top priority for every day.  

This all makes me want to leave the front door open and hope she will go and find another family so I don't have to deal with her anymore.
  
WAIT A MINUTE....this also sound like me (well not the litter box part)!!  

I go through life like I own the place. I leave messes for others to deal with and I want my needs met as soon as possible. God chastens me at times and then I start acting like it didn't even bother me and I go right back to doing the same old things.  

I wonder if God wishes He could leave the door open so I might run off and then He wouldn't have to deal with me anymore?

WAIT A MINUTE.....that's not my God!!   He looks at me as being the apple of His eye.  

These verses validate that He looks at me in a way that I can't even begin to comprehend:
2 Cor. 5:17  New Creation
Rom. 8:1  Not Condemned
Phil 3:20  Citizen of Heaven
Eph 1:4  Holy and Blameless
1 Cor 1:2  Saint
Heb 9:28 Forgiven


And many other verses like these make His view of me very clear.  Oh, if I could only see myself the way HE sees me!


"The Lord is my shepherd...He restores my soul....Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me....surely Your goodness and lovingkindness will pursue me all the days of my life.  (Psalm 23:1,4,6)


What wonderful news to know that the thoughts I have about my cat never cross HIS mind because of what Jesus did on that cross.  What an amazing God!!!


And if you stop by to see us and the front door is standing open... my wife and cat are probably hoping I'm heading out for a long walk.

Monday, May 9, 2011

CEO

I was recently challenged by an article I read about a man who had decided to be the CEO of his family,workplace and church.  In the article he explained what he meant by the title CEO.  It stood for Chief Encouragement Officer.  He stated how much he had recognized the need for people to be encouraged and appreciated.  I have started to notice that same need in people. As a matter of fact I believe our society is starving for encouragement.  I looked up the word encourage and words like strengthen and support are used.  Romans 15:5 states..."now may the God who gives perseverance and encouragement grant you to be one of the same mind with one another according to Christ Jesus"  So apparently encouragement and perseverance are connected.  Could it be that when we encourage others that it helps them persevere? Could it be it strengthens them to deal with there circumstances?  Could it be that it brings about some hope when things seem hopeless?  Could it be that it reveals Jesus to them?
Jesus was constantly encouraging others.  People wanted to be around Him because they felt strengthened and hopeful.  HE was the ultimate CEO!  So do you think you could set aside time to send a note,type out an email/text and let a wife, a child,a friend , or a co -worker know how much you appreciate them and encourage them to keep pursuing HIM and HIS heart.  I think our homes,workplaces and churches need alot more CEO's!!